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AquaWithaHeart | people who don't know me keeping telling me this.I'm just being honest |
Moon is Lunatic | Yes. Often if I think that someone is acting annoying I'll let them know. I can be scared of hurting their feelings afterwards though (Cancer Sun & Moon.) And once you get to know me better I'm not that blunt anymore. |
amelia28 | Its weird sag is my strongest sign but I dont typically get along with Sun in sag although there are exceptions for sure... To be fair I like them but they dont like me; that is how it FEELS like, I get this feeling they dont like me, one exception of a sag I got a long with supeeer great is someone whose brother who he works with and is very close to is a virgo like me so I am thinking that played a role..My uncle I ADORE and he is sag with virgo rising though.. I have sag rising, Jupiter/uranus in the 12th cojunct AC, neptune in the first in sag at the GC square sun and moon forming a tsquare. I am blunt specially with my SO but otherwise I tend to be direct but mindful so I have never been called mean...but who knows maybe some people think I am and don't tell me and I don't realize it.... |
sweet-scorpion | Yup. I get called mean sometimes by people when I am being honest. I am working on being less blunt in certain areas. My Jupiter is in Scorpio, con. Venus. I'm a Libra but it doesn't matter. I'm still too blunt sometimes. |
Leorpio | quote: Originally posted by amelia28: Its weird sag is my strongest sign but I dont typically get along with Sun in sag although there are exceptions for sure...To be fair I like them but they dont like me; that is how it FEELS like, I get this feeling they dont like me, one exception of a sag I got a long with supeeer great is someone whose brother who he works with and is very close to is a virgo like me so I am thinking that played a role..My uncle I ADORE and he is sag with virgo rising though.. I have sag rising, Jupiter/uranus in the 12th cojunct AC, neptune in the first in sag at the GC square sun and moon forming a tsquare. I am blunt specially with my SO but otherwise I tend to be direct but mindful so I have never been called mean...but who knows maybe some people think I am and don't tell me and I don't realize it....
Often times sun signs don't really like their rising sign counter parts because they feel fake to them or like an imposter. I see it all the time, though there are exceptions for sure. I'm a Leo sun and I vibe REALLY well with other Leo suns and even Leo moons but Leo risings I just don't like very much for some reason. They feel like imposters to the throne if you know what I mean lol. And I've noticed some Capricorns don't like me (I'm cap rising) so I'm sure it happens with all signs unless there's something else that saves the relationship. |
MagnumJoe | Oooh Countless times And it happens especially with pisces, virgos and cancer people. They can't stand me. |
amelia28 | quote: Originally posted by Leorpio: Often times sun signs don't really like their rising sign counter parts because they feel fake to them or like an imposter. I see it all the time, though there are exceptions for sure. I'm a Leo sun and I vibe REALLY well with other Leo suns and even Leo moons but Leo risings I just don't like very much for some reason. They feel like imposters to the throne if you know what I mean lol. And I've noticed some Capricorns don't like me (I'm cap rising) so I'm sure it happens with all signs unless there's something else that saves the relationship.
Interesting observation... |
ariestaurus | yes, all the time. I'm too blunt for my own good |
ShineYourLight | Not really.. but I have Sun/Mercury in the 8th house so I choose my words wisely.. and to be honest most of the time I think people are just not worth the time and energy to react to especially if they are being mean, so I just move on and be happy
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start6030 | am a leo sun with saggi asc ... people usually feel i hv a lot of attitude and am the one who would be strict and all ... and they often tell me later on that they never imagined me to b that fun person or how they were scared to talk to me coz they thought I HAD A LOT OF ATTITUDE and might be arrogant (lolz) . am not sure about the mean part and yes , i usually attract pisces but we never get along well ..one of us is always uncomfortable ! interesting thread! |
Venusian Moon | My Daughters a sag rising and she's a meanie. Only 6 years old. Plus she has a Gemini sun and gemini mercury so she is extra blunt lol. ------------------ Gemini sun 12th.(Gemini/cancer cusp) Cancer asc 1st Taurus moon 11th Taurus venus 11th Libra mars 3rd Gemini mercury 11th |
aquaguy91 | I could see how sag ascendants could be viewed that way. Especially paired with other fire or water placements. |
PixieJane | quote: Originally posted by AquaWithaHeart: people who don't know me keeping telling me this.I'm just being honest
It comes with the territory. "It" being the label that comes from a subjective judgment call rather than an objective fact. But if you were diplomatic and careful to keep everyone happy and at ease at all time then you'd instead get called wishy washy, two-faced, passive aggressive, spineless, brown noser, and the like. Inevitably you're going to disappoint or upset someone, and when you do that person will be prone to describe you with a negative label which may or may not be how you or anyone else would've described it. If you want to know if you are coming off as "too honest" then look to how others react to those who do know you. Do people say they're mean as well? If not then you're probably correct in you're just being honest (as opposed to "Jerry Springer honest") as otherwise such people probably would have nothing to do with you (unless they're family...) |
amelia28 | quote: Originally posted by start6030: am a leo sun with saggi asc ... people usually feel i hv a lot of attitude and am the one who would be strict and all ... and they often tell me later on that they never imagined me to b that fun person or how they were scared to talk to me coz they thought I HAD A LOT OF ATTITUDE and might be arrogant (lolz) . am not sure about the mean part and yes , i usually attract pisces but we never get along well ..one of us is always uncomfortable ! interesting thread!
Can you share all your mars aspects? |
Supermeggs12 | I'm not a sag ASC, but I do have Sagittarius mercury. I'm way too honest at times, but I don't have bad intentions. |
Comatoes | My dad is Sag Moon and ascendant, yeah he is blunt, but I wouldn't call it mean. In fact, most Sags tend to be right about things, they're just calling it how they see it. Don't kill the messenger... I'm sensitive but I don't care if people tell me stuff bluntly, I rather know the truth than being lied to or babied. I have a Gemini Moon and Pluto in 3rd, but Venus in 1st, so I can be blunt but I value/feel people's feelings way too much so I am very tactful. I hate hurting people's feelings so I try to smooth out the "blow". |
PixieJane | My cousin is a Sag ascendant and I don't think he's mean. But others do. I actually blame his Aries sun mixed with Cancer Mars for lashing out easily (Sag bluntness doesn't help) though his Pisces Moon can make him feel bad about it after. I like to think it was just Sag humor when he told me to tell him if anyone hurt me or threatened to, "Because no one hurts you but me." Still, not long after he said that he nearly shot my eye out (dang his Pisces Moon knowing where I'd pop my head out next as we settled our differences with air pistols--he started it) and as a joke he handed me some homemade dynamite--with a burning fuse that I barely threw away in time (and would've taken my hand if I hadn't) though when I beat him up right after he didn't strike back (whether he knew it was because he deserved it or he was laughing too hard is difficult to say). And as an adult he pressured me into watching Jackass 3 only he (along with his wife) were laughing at the expressions on my face more than the video. But again, I don't consider him mean, though I can see why others would. He also tends to tease me and send me gag gifts a lot (one that was very insulting that had there not have been a thousand miles between us I'd have made him regret it), but it's just how he plays. I don't think of him as mean or sadistic, but he is rough and expecting others to be on the rough side as well, and he can take it (and laugh it off) as well as dish it out. Whenever he saw I was actually hurt (which was very rare) he felt terrible. There was only one time I can recall that I think he was being willfully cruel and delighting in my misery but given that he was 7-8 at the time I don't hold it against him. |
butterflyxoxxo | Yes, I have sag asc, mercury, with mars opp mercury and I like to argue and have been called mean. My last relationship actually ended because of how mean I would get during arguments. I have been called "abrasive" as well, although as I get older I am learning that being tactful is more important than being right or telling the truth. This has been a hard lesson for me and I still succumb to the urge to say what it is I am feeling. |
LuckyStar | I'm a sag ascendant and my daughter is and we are considered the "nicest people". Both of us get that compliment all the time. People have even said to me -you are the nicest person I know. I do candy coat a lot, and I try never to be blunt. That could be the secret. |